Pillar of Hope in Cottonwood Island Park (Image Credit: Cheryl Jahn)
Highway of Tears Symposium

Pillar of Hope unveiled in Cottonwood Island Park

Apr 10, 2026 | 4:35 PM


PRINCE GEORGE – It was a humbling experience in Cottonwood Island Park Friday – a fitting culmination to what was an enlightening, but trying, four day gathering.

“The pillar of hope,” explains Mary Teegee-Gray, CAO of Carrier Sekani Family Services. “You’ll notice that there’s four seasons, and the four seasons are symbolic because before we raise a head stone in our way, we go through that first season, the first Christmas, the first spring, the first birthday without them. So we grieve that whole year and then the year after. When we raise the headstone, it’s when we let them go.”

Matilda Wilson, mother of one of the victims, Ramona Wilson, was in attendance for the unveiling. It was only fitting she joined other family members at the ceremony. She says the pillar is a healing step.

“The sorrow is still there. The hurt is still there. It doesn’t go away, but you learn to live with it, and you learn to help people out. You know what they’re going through. In the last 31 years, I’ve met so many people across B.C., and my heart goes out to them because I know how it is when your child is missing.”

She says she hopes events like the symposium will allow people from all corners to work together to prevent anybody from going missing along the Highway of Tears.

“This way, we will be able to work together and then the younger generation will be able to live happily and, you know, I wish some day that there will be no murders, no missing for the younger generation.”

Many of the lost women and girls who began this two-decades long journey, went missing even earlier than that, but now their memories will never disappear.