Palliative Care Concern

Husband faces isolation in providing around-the-clock care for wife battling end-stage alzheimer’s

Nov 17, 2023 | 1:10 PM

PRINCE GEORGE – For the last several years, a Quesnel man has seen and helped his wife go through the stages of Alzheimer’s. Her wish is to die at home. However, her husband has become overwhelmed to satisfy his wife’s dying wish.

Robert Bennett’s wife suffers from end-stage Alzheimer’s. He provides his wife with around-the-clock care from their home.

Two years ago, doctors placed Marlene Dy in palliative care. At that time, doctors gave her just months to live following that difficult diagnosis. Robert decided to care for her at home, and two years later, she defied the odds.

“ In August, we were informed they were too busy, so they took away one of the respite days. So now it’s once a week for an hour and a half, and they said they would get back to me, and I haven’t heard from them in three months.”

Robert Bennett, Husband and Caregiver

Over the months, Robert has succumbed to the idea that help is not coming.

“I cannot leave my wife alone for, you know, 15, 20 minutes to run to the store.”

Robert Bennett Husband and Caregiver

Executive Director of Prince George Hospice Donna Flood says they have programs available for caregivers anywhere in Northern BC who are overwhelmed or need to talk to a professional.

“ We also offer virtual support. So you don’t need to come to us. We can come to you virtually. And if you need support, even setting that up and having the devices or the ability to do that, we can help you.”

Donna Flood, Executive Director of Prince George Hospice

We contacted Northern Health to respond to this story, but they did not meet our deadline.

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